Elder-Abuse
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One of the main steps a child of an elderly parent can take to protect them from neglect or abuse is to stay involved in their parent's life.

Regular visitation and communication with your parent or the staff caring for them has many benefits. Along with the emotional benefits to your parent, staff will be aware that you are keeping an eye on the standard of care your parent is receiving. You will also notice changes in behavior or physical symptoms such as unexplained bruising and untreated bed sores, that can be attributed to neglect or abuse, before it's too late.

If you are not able to make frequent visits you could ask friends or other relatives to stop in and visit. You can also hire an aide or contact a charitable group that can visit and report on your parent's care and health.

If an elderly parent makes a complaint do not quickly dismiss it. Sudden changes in their personality, eating habits, weight loss or lack of mobility could be linked to a lack of attention and care. If you are unfamiliar with the aging process, including the medical concerns and abilities of your parent, you may feel reluctant to question staff or report your concerns. Research what you can about your parent's ailments and go with your instincts; if unexplained injuries, missing objects or a sudden change such as depression or weight loss, give you cause for concern it is in your hands to speak up and get answers or report problems.

Dealing with an aging parent has its difficulties, but taking responsibility for them is a child's obligation. If you cannot do so personally there are arrangements you can make so your parent ages with dignity and good care.